WRIGHT-PATTERSON AIR FORCE BASE, Ohio -- Respect, consideration and good timing are key factors to the success of a dual military couple, according to Capt. Tammie Ellerbe, 88 Force Support Squadron deputy commander, and Capt. Kendric Ellerbe, 18 Intelligence Squadron chief of Current Operations.  Understanding the importance of working together is what helps their military careers, as well as their marriage.

The Ellerbe's have welcomed various opportunities the Air Force has afforded them.  The month of February, designated Black History month, is also a time they have chosen to stop and reflect on the great contributions African Americans have made to society and thank all of the people who paved a way for them.

"We are both very fortunate to be in the Air Force.  It has given us the opportunity to grow as individuals, to receive higher education, to travel and to mentor others," Kendric Ellerbe said.

Early in their enlisted careers, both Tammie and Kendric Ellerbe aspired to become officers. They both earned a master's degree, and two sons later, they both went on to complete Officers' Training Corp.

"My husband and I both received our master's degrees by utilizing Tuition Assistance and hope our sons will follow in our footsteps," said Tammie Ellerbe.

Over their 34 years of collective service, another opportunity that has made a difference in their lives is travel.   Through multiple duty station assignments, the Air Force has taken them all over the world.    

"Coming from a small town in South Carolina, I never saw much more than my own state, so my mindset was not as experienced or as diverse as it should have been," said Kendric Ellerbe.

The Ellerbe's say the only disadvantage of being a dual military couple is when it comes to Temporary Duty or deployments, which have been infrequent to date. With the possibility of having to leave at the same time, as with any military couple, arrangements must be made in advance to accommodate their two sons.

"There is always that possibility that we may be tasked with a deployment or temporary duty at the same time.  Fortunately for us, this has not happened yet, but if it does, we have family members and friends who are willing to step up to help," said Tammie Ellerbe.

For this couple, February is not only a time of reflection, but a time to make sure they are giving back to others.  Although they mentor regularly, they want to mentor enlisted members who dream of being an officer, but are unsure where to start.

"The Air Force has given us a great opportunity to be a role model for African Americans, Caucasians and any other ethnicity.  Hopefully, we have empowered others to take ownership of their lives and make the best of each opportunity presented them, just as others have pushed us fare beyond our wildest dreams, " said Kendric Ellerbe.